Unfortunately it is still a common misconception that if you don't
look a certain way some people expect you to be somehow mentally lacking.
You may or may not know I was born with a cleft lip a palate.
Approximately 1 in 700 children are born with a cleft lip and/or a cleft palate each year. Clefts
can also affect other parts of the face, such as the eyes, ears, nose,
cheeks, and forehead. Lucky for me I've not had other problems apart
from scaring, my nose and some speech and hearing problems when I was a
kid. The only problem I have with my forehead is the lack of hair which
now seems to be falling out (thank you Dad).
Anyway,
it's a shame that in this day and age some people still seem to
associate such problems with mental capability as well. I don't get this
from people very often but when it does it still catches me off guard.
Although I'm capable of ignoring such ignorance I find myself still
rather pissed that some people can be so narrow minded.
I
recall once I was minding my own business when an elderly lady came up
to me one day and told me it was nice that people like me were able to
get jobs. When I asked her what she meant she said "You know" to which I
replied "No, I don't".
She then went on to tell me how
she thought it was good that despite me being "slow" (her words not
mine) it didn't stop me from getting a job. After I got over the sheer
disbelief of what this women said I couldn't help but wonder how many
other people put up with such ignorance on a daily basis and how they
handle it?
These days I find it rather amusing in a sad
way when I come across these people. Don't get me wrong it's young and
old that can be like this (don't want some pensioners group having a go
at me) but if at some point in the future you look at someone that maybe
doesn't conform with your narrow view of society for goodness sake
think before you open your mouth.
Ugh, that sucks. People really can be assholes sometimes. Hope @PigeonJon shits on her, ha ha.
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